Dealing With Peer Pressure
As we grow older, we all find ourselves being faced with increasingly more difficult decisions some of which have no clear solution. Sometimes the decision is relatively inconsequential, such as deciding whether to take up one sport or another. However, other decisions can have far more impact such as deciding to try cigarettes, or whether or not to cut class or indulge in under aged drinking. These decisions can be difficult enough as it is, but when other people get involved in your decision it can get a great deal harder to make the right choice. This is why peer pressure is such a big issue. In this essay I will be looking at what peer pressure is and why it is an important issue as well as looking at how to combat it.
First and foremost, it is important to understand exactly what peer pressure is. Children’s charity Childline define peer pressure as feeling as though you have to do a certain thing because other people your age are doing it and you feel pressured to fit in with the rest of the group. This can include things as simple as wearing the same style or brands of clothing as everyone else, or more serious issues such as drinking, smoking, taking drugs, bullying or becoming sexually active. In the majority of cases peer pressure is a negative thing, but it is also worth noting that it can have a positive influence as well. For example, it can encourage a young person to try a new activity that they might not have or not drinking alcohol because none of their friends are.
On of the biggest issues regarding peer pressure is that so many young people give in to it because they have a built in desire to fit in with the people around them. They also worry that others are going to make fun of them if they don’t do whatever it is everyone else is doing. This often leads to kids pushing away the gut instinct that tells them something is wrong causing them to exercise some very poor judgement.
It is difficult to walk away and say no to peer pressure, especially if none of your friends are willing to stand by you when you say no. However, with enough self-confidence and inner strength it is possible to resist and make smart choices. It is important to listen to your own judgement. If you feel uncomfortable with whatever it is that you are being pressured into doing, then you already know that it isn’t right so listen to your heart and say no. Often, if one person is brave enough to say no, one or two others will follow their lead. If you have friends who are regularly trying to push you into these types of situations then it is best to stop hanging out with them. You have probably been told by parents and teachers to choose your friends wisely and this is very good advice. Seek out friends who share your morals and beliefs and who will respect your choices.
In conclusion, peer pressure is something that most young people are going to have to face when they are growing up. It can be incredibly difficult to deal with, but those who are able to find the confidence to speak up will not only stop themselves making some stupid decisions, but they may also give others the courage that they need to say no as well.
References:
https://www.childline.org.uk/Explore/Friends/Pages/Peerpressure.aspx>
http://www.safeteens.org/relationships/peer-pressure/>